So, you have decided to take this courageous step. If your parents do not help you, then you need to do everything yourself. First of all, talk with your loved one, if possible, in all details, exactly how you see the wedding celebration. If you have come to a common denominator, let your parents know. And this is where the fun begins! Usually parents can take two positions. First, do what you want; second, everything you do is doomed to failure. So, with any of these options, remember that this is your wedding - and you need to make it exactly the way you see it. First you need to make a plan - what, where, when approximately you want and can do. There are several things to consider for any wedding. In advance (preferably several months) you need to order a restaurant, buy a dress and shoes for the bride, a suit for the groom. Then find a good photographer and cameraman, adequate to the host. That's all, these are the main questions. Then small ones begin, at first glance, but it is from them that the ideal of the wedding is formed. You need to choose a car and transport in which guests will ride with you. Then order online or buy / rent in the store decorations for the hall and vehicles. Don't forget about the bridal bouquet. The groom must think in advance how he will pick him up on the wedding day: send one of his friends, through the delivery service, or go on the eve on his own. Pick up the music - otherwise it may be an unpleasant surprise for you at the party. Choose contests with the toastmaster, this is important if you want none of the guests to be offended. Practice the dance.